Minnesota Governor Tim Walz openly shared that he and his wife, Gwen, utilized fertility treatments to welcome their two children, an experience that resonated deeply during a rally in Glendale, Arizona, where attendees chanted the name of their first daughter, Hope. This candid approach sparked a positive response similar to the approval Vice President Kamala Harris received for her selection of a running mate from various Democratic factions, including moderates, progressives, and even the recently independent Senator Joe Manchin.
The Walzes also deserve recognition for their discussions surrounding their son, Gus, who has gained national attention due to an article in People magazine addressing his nonverbal learning disorder and attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder, which together make him double-neurodiverse.
The family’s approach to parenting Gus stands out, especially against a backdrop where many parents of neurodivergent children have perpetuated harmful narratives, such as the debunked connection between vaccines and autism. The Walzes have chosen a path focused on helping Gus thrive rather than changing who he is.
Nonverbal learning disorder (NVLD) impacts various forms of nonverbal learning, including visual and social patterns, as well as language and math concepts. Individuals with NVLD are often mistaken for being on the autism spectrum due to overlapping traits. Recent examples, like comedian Chris Rock revealing his diagnosis, highlight the complexities involved.
Unlike many families who try to “fix” neurodivergent individuals, the Walzes recognized Gus’s differences early on, noting his preference for solitary activities like video games. They chose to celebrate his quirks instead of focusing on perceived shortcomings. They emphasized Gus’s strengths, describing him as “brilliant” and an “excellent son and brother.”
It is refreshing to see the Walz family prioritize Gus’s strengths over societal pressures to conform, especially in light of their political lifestyle. This perspective contrasts with past approaches, such as the case of Paris Hilton, whose ADHD diagnosis resulted in misguided treatment efforts aimed at “fixing” her.
While the Walzes’ support for Gus may seem routine, it underscores a vital message: embracing and celebrating neurodivergent children is crucial. Every child, regardless of neurodiversity, deserves supportive parents who appreciate their unique perspectives and qualities.
As governor, Walz has also taken steps to enhance the lives of individuals with disabilities, including efforts to eliminate parental fees for Medicaid-enrolled children, easing financial strains on families.
Minnesota is another ally in this journey, providing resources like the Partners in Policymaking program to empower families of individuals with disabilities. Additionally, Harris was recognized as the first presidential candidate to introduce a disability policy during the 2020 Democratic primary.
Although the Walzes have room for growth in their conversations about Gus’s disability—such as their characterization of his condition as a “secret power,” which can overshadow the real needs he may have as he transitions to adulthood—their overall focus remains on his potential. Their journey offers a beacon of hope and a model for other families with children facing developmental challenges, emphasizing the importance of acceptance and celebration over the desire to “fix” them.