Teddi Mellencamp has publicly addressed her rumored affair with horse trainer Simon Schroeder during her marriage to Edwin Arroyave, marking a significant moment in her personal journey. Speaking on “The Jamie Kern Lima Show” podcast released on August 5, Mellencamp revealed that she had remained silent on the matter for the sake of her children but acknowledged her past actions caused pain for others.
Reflecting on her life and choices, she noted, “Did I do things that hurt other people? Yes,” indicating a sense of remorse. Tears flowed as she expressed her concerns that her actions may have had severe repercussions on her health, musing, “to this day… I wonder if that’s why I got cancer.” This introspection comes alongside a difficult health battle, as she was diagnosed with brain cancer in February 2025, a reality that saw her divorce proceedings with Arroyave taking a backseat as he provided her supportive care.
Mellencamp also shared that both she and Schroeder filed for divorce from their respective spouses citing irreconcilable differences around the same time. She described a phase in her life where she felt deeply broken and susceptible to poor choices, emphasizing, “the wreckage doesn’t happen on its own.” Her candid discussion highlights her emotional struggles during that tumultuous time, and her journey through health challenges has only intensified the weight of these past experiences.
Notably, despite their separation, Mellencamp expressed that she does not harbor any ill feelings toward Arroyave, hoping for his happiness. As she navigates the complexities of her past while facing her present health battles, Mellencamp serves as a reminder that personal growth often stems from confronting one’s mistakes.
This heartfelt discussion sheds light on the emotional weight of relationships and the challenges they can bring, especially in the face of health adversities. The hope is that this openness may foster healing not just for Mellencamp but for anyone grappling with their own struggles.