Mariska Hargitay, renowned for her role in “Law & Order: Special Victims Unit,” has opened up about a long-held family secret in her new documentary titled “My Mom Jayne,” which centers on her late mother, Hollywood icon Jayne Mansfield. At 61, Hargitay reveals that her biological father is not who she believed for most of her life. Instead of bodybuilder and actor Mickey Hargitay, she discovered that her real father is Italian singer and comedian Nelson Sardelli.
The documentary delves into the aftermath of the tragic car accident in June 1967 that claimed Mansfield’s life when she was just 34 years old. Following her mother’s passing when she was only three, Mariska was raised by Mickey alongside her siblings, Mickey Jr. and Zoltán.
In an interview with Vanity Fair, Hargitay shared the moment she confronted this life-altering truth in her twenties upon seeing a photograph of Sardelli. “It was like the floor fell out from underneath me,” she reflects in the documentary. Despite the heartbreaking revelation, she chose to uphold her close relationship with Mickey Hargitay, and the actress has expressed feelings of loyalty towards him.
Interestingly, Mariska did reach out to Sardelli years later, specifically in 2004, when he performed in Atlantic City. The ensuing emotions were palpable, as Sardelli reportedly said he had been waiting for that moment for 30 years. Hargitay’s response, however, showcased her strength: “I don’t want anything, I don’t need anything from you. I have a dad,” illustrating her need to remain steadfast in her loyalty to Mickey.
This discovery has not only impacted Mariska’s understanding of her identity but has enriched her journey as a mother of two adopted children with her husband, Peter Hermann. She reflects on the lessons learned and the emotions embraced throughout this process, recognizing that her experiences have deepened her appreciation for her own family.
“My Mom Jayne,” marking Hargitay’s directorial debut, premiered globally at the Cannes Film Festival and is set to air on HBO on June 27. This personal exploration of family, identity, and love serves not only as a tribute to her mother but also reflects Mariska Hargitay’s growth and resilience as both an actress and a parent.
This documentary opens up discussions about the complex nature of family bonds and the journey of self-discovery, offering hope and understanding to those who have faced similar revelations in their own lives.