Dakota Johnson takes on the role of Lucy, a jaded Manhattan matchmaker, in the romantic film “Materialists,” directed by Celine Song. The film explores Lucy’s struggles with love and modern dating practices as a love triangle unfolds involving actors Pedro Pascal and Chris Evans. While the plot thickens with comedy, it also delves into the serious topic of matchmaking in the contemporary world, questioning whether genuine connections can be forged through algorithms and standard metrics.
Maria Avgitidis, a professional matchmaker in New York and author of “Ask a Matchmaker,” recently shared her insights on the film’s portrayal of matchmaking. Avgitidis expressed her skepticism about the accuracy of the film, stating, “I don’t see myself in this.” She cautioned fellow matchmakers about fully embracing the film, suggesting they proceed with caution regarding its depiction of the industry.
Song’s inspiration for “Materialists” stems from her own experiences working in a matchmaking service, where she reported learning significantly about human relationships. She has labeled matchmaking akin to being “a stock market trader,” understanding the complexities involved in pairing individuals.
Avgitidis pointed out parts of the film that align with reality, such as the salary Johnson’s character mentions, which is reflective of entry-level positions in matchmaking services. However, she also highlighted inaccuracies, like the depiction of matchmakers seeking clients in public spaces, which she marked as outdated. From her experience, most matchmakers prefer clients to approach them instead.
Another aspect discussed was the realism of Lucy’s office environment. Avgitidis noted that intimate conversations about personal matters like relationships wouldn’t typically take place in a public café, as shown in the movie. Furthermore, while some matchmakers do develop connections with clients, the professional boundaries typically remain intact, contrary to how Lucy’s character interacts with her clients.
One contentious plot point involves a character experiencing sexual assault on a date arranged by Lucy, which Avgitidis strongly reacted against, asserting that such incidents are not a norm in the industry and should not have been trivialized in the film.
Avgitidis encouraged viewers to seek out the right matchmaker for their needs and to understand that matchmaking is about building community, rather than just transactional interactions.
Overall, “Materialists” is currently in theaters, and Avgitidis’ book is also available, offering further insights into matchmaking and finding love in today’s complex dating landscape. This film might not only entertain but also evoke thoughtful discussions around the evolving nature of love and the role of modern matchmakers in society.