Lisa Rinna has definitively addressed the long-standing speculation surrounding her husband Harry Hamlin’s sexuality in her new memoir, “You Better Believe I’m Gonna Talk About It,” which was released this week. In her candid remarks, Rinna, 62, emphasized, “Let’s just clear this up one last time, once and for all: Harry’s heterosexual.” She further clarified that while there is nothing wrong with being gay, Hamlin is not part of the LGBTQ+ community.
This discussion rekindles Rinna’s reflections on the rumors, which surfaced after she joined the cast of “Real Housewives of Beverly Hills” in 2014. Before that, she claimed she had never encountered such whispers, explaining, “I just figured bitches will say anything to get my hackles up, so it never concerned me.” Rinna noted that many husbands on the show faced similar scrutiny regarding their sexual orientation.
Interestingly, Rinna suggested that Hamlin may have faced these rumors due to his good looks and impeccable style, which can lead to assumptions about a man’s sexuality in Hollywood. The actor, 74, has endured speculation since his role in the 1982 film “Making Love,” where he portrayed an openly gay character involved in a complex relationship with a straight man. Reflecting on that pivotal role, Rinna praised Hamlin’s bravery for taking on such a groundbreaking character at a time when mainstream narratives around gay men were scarce. She revealed that this role had significant repercussions in his career, causing a lengthy period of being blacklisted from projects.
Despite the rumors, Rinna has made it clear that both she and Hamlin are unconcerned about public perceptions, citing a strong foundation of trust in their nearly 29-year marriage. “I would be shocked if I ever found out he was having an affair,” she stated, reinforcing the solid relationship they share along with their two daughters, Delilah Belle and Amelia Gray.
Rinna has also been open about the evolution of their intimacy over the years, acknowledging that while their sexual life has changed, her confidence in her 60s has made their experiences even more fulfilling. The couple, who married in 1997, continues to prioritize their bond amid external rumors and has remained strong as a family unit.
This public affirmation both celebrates their enduring love and addresses the need for dispelling misconceptions that can arise in the realm of celebrity relationships. Rinna’s reflections not only shine a light on the personal aspects of their marriage but also highlight the broader issues of representation and the complexities surrounding discussions of sexuality in Hollywood.