Jen Hatmaker’s latest memoir, “Awake,” is a candid exploration of her personal journey following the revelation that her husband of 26 years was unfaithful. Known for her podcast “For the Love” and as a bestselling author, Hatmaker provides a deeply personal narrative about picking up the pieces after significant betrayal.
On July 11, 2020, Hatmaker woke to her husband whispering to another woman, a moment that shattered the life she had carefully constructed as a mother, author, and podcast host. Despite the profound personal pain, Hatmaker emphasizes that her experience of divorce, while painful, is not unique. It is this relatability that she believes makes the story so compelling and important.
“Awake” represents a new chapter for Hatmaker, departing from her previous advice-driven books to delve into the raw and vulnerable aspects of her life. She describes the memoir as a collection of personal stories and memories, acknowledging that different individuals involved might have their own versions of events. This feature of memoirs, she suggests, adds to its authenticity and sincerity.
Throughout the process of overcoming her struggles, Hatmaker discovered that healing from such a deep hurt does not come with quick fixes or easy answers. Instead, she shares lessons on accepting and processing pain patiently and appreciating the support of her community. Her friends and family were instrumental in helping her find stability and rebuild her life, providing invaluable support during difficult times.
Hatmaker hopes that by sharing her story, “Awake” can serve as a source of comfort and encouragement for others experiencing similar life transitions or challenges. She envisions the memoir as a lantern, offering guidance and reassurance to women navigating through their own trials. Despite the difficulties, Hatmaker’s narrative is ultimately one of resilience and hope, emphasizing that there is much to look forward to in the next chapters of life.
“Awake” by Jen Hatmaker is available now and invites readers to reflect on their own lives with empathy and courage.