Jana Kramer, the 41-year-old actress and singer, discussed her unique role as a stepmom during a recent episode of iHeartRadio’s “Whine Down” podcast. She shared her experience of meeting her husband Allan Russell’s teenage son, Troy, from a previous relationship. Kramer emphasized the challenges of connecting with a teenager who has his own established relationships, particularly with his mother, who has been part of his life for 15 years.
Kramer noted that her own background as a child of divorce influenced her perspective. She recalled her feelings when her father dated after his divorce, stating, “I’m not looking for another mom.” She acknowledged that while her children have their father too, her position in their lives holds significant responsibility and love.
She expressed her desire to forge a friendly relationship with Troy, highlighting the difficulty of not seeing him as often as she would like. However, she remains committed to being there for him, recognizing the importance of being a supportive figure rather than trying to replace his mother. Russell reassured Kramer that their son appreciates her presence and feels comfortable confiding in her.
In a light-hearted moment, Kramer referred to herself as the “cool stepmom,” emphasizing her aim to be a friend rather than a parental figure. The couple also shared details about their marriage, revealing that they had a private ceremony in January 2024 before celebrating with a formal wedding in July 2024. They expressed their eagerness to marry after welcoming their son, Roman, in November 2023, finding beauty in the privacy of their initial union.
This thoughtful approach to blending families demonstrates a positive dynamic, as both Kramer and Russell prioritize understanding and support in their relationship with Troy, which may pave the way for a stronger family bond.