Rax King, a writer originally from the Washington, D.C. area and now residing in Brooklyn, has released her newest essay collection titled “Sloppy: Or, Doing It All Wrong.” The book offers an unapologetic examination of bad habits, shaped by King’s reflections in the years following her journey to sobriety. Throughout the essays, readers can discover intriguing local anecdotes, such as the quirky laws governing strip clubs in D.C., where King previously worked, and the story of a childhood classmate involved in organized retail theft in Rock Creek Park.
“Sloppy” is seen as a companion piece to King’s earlier work, “Tacky: Love Letters to the Worst Culture We Have to Offer,” and her podcast “Low Culture Boil,” where she explores the absurdity of culture and human experiences with humorous wit. The official release of the book coincides with King’s upcoming appearance at Politics and Prose in Union Market, scheduled for Thursday.
In an interview, King explained how her focus expanded from addiction to examining broader themes surrounding her life as a self-proclaimed “quiet fuck-up.” She pointed out that while others may shy away from discussing embarrassing experiences, she approaches these topics candidly, often finding humor in her struggles. This perspective allows her to connect with readers on shared vulnerabilities.
King’s insights into her upbringing in D.C. reveal a desire to portray her hometown beyond the lens of politics and professional life. She reminisced about her favorite spots in the city, including music venues and beloved restaurants that hold personal significance. Despite the fond memories, King also expressed her conflicted feelings about leaving D.C. for New York City, where she pursued new opportunities and relationships.
The collection not only delves into her personal growth but also serves as a reminder that navigating life’s challenges is a universal experience. King’s work encourages readers to embrace the messy parts of life and find healing through self-reflection, humor, and connection with others.
Overall, “Sloppy” is more than just a memoir; it’s a celebration of resilience, comedy, and the unique stories that shape our identities. At its heart, the book embodies the idea that acknowledging our flaws can lead to greater understanding and connection in a world where many feel lost.