Dominique Pelicot, a 71-year-old man on trial in France for drugging his wife to facilitate her abuse by numerous men over a decade, has confessed to all charges during his initial testimony since the trial began on September 2. He acknowledged the 50 co-defendants implicated in the case, stating, “I am a rapist like the others in this room,” and added, “They all knew, they cannot say otherwise.” Of the 50 defendants, only 15 have admitted to rape, with many claiming they only participated in sexual acts.
Mr. Pelicot expressed remorse for his actions, stating, “She did not deserve this,” and requested forgiveness from his ex-wife and family, describing his request as “unacceptable.” Gisèle Pelicot, his former spouse, responded emotionally, saying, “It is difficult for me to listen to this. For 50 years, I lived with a man who I would have never imagined could be capable of this. I trusted him completely.”
Though cameras are not permitted in the courtroom, the trial is open to the public at Gisèle’s request, as she waived her right to anonymity. Her legal team believes this decision shifts the focus of shame back onto the accused. After court proceedings on Tuesday, Gisèle received applause from the audience and accepted a bouquet of flowers, symbolizing her newfound status as a figure of strength and bravery. The trial has sparked widespread discussions in France regarding marital rape, consent, and drug facilitated sexual assault, as public support for Gisèle continues to grow.
During his testimony, Mr. Pelicot shared insights into his troubled childhood, revealing he was sexually abused when he was nine. He reflected on his marriage, admitting he contemplated suicide upon discovering an affair by Gisèle. Throughout his statements, he insisted that he never hated her, declaring, “I was crazy about her… I loved her immensely and I still do.” He remarked on their relationship, stating, “I loved her well for 40 years and badly for 10,” indicating the period of abuse. Mr. Pelicot faced questions from Gisèle’s lawyer about why he didn’t stop his abuses, even as she began to experience health issues.