In his latest memoir, “We Did OK, Kid,” renowned actor Anthony Hopkins opens up about his estranged relationship with his daughter, Abigail. The Oscar-winning star reflects on the profound absence of contact with her, which he describes as “the saddest fact of my life” and his greatest regret.
Hopkins expresses a heartfelt sentiment towards Abigail, stating, “I hope my daughter knows that my door is always open to her. I want her to be well and happy.” He reminisces about fond memories of their early years together, highlighting the joy he felt when he first laid eyes on her as a baby. Despite their estrangement following his divorce from Abigail’s mother, Petronella Barker, in 1972, Hopkins maintains a desire for reconciliation.
The memoir reveals that Hopkins had limited contact with Abigail and her mother for several years following the divorce, a situation that left him with deep remorse. He recalls briefly reconnecting with his daughter during her teenage years, helping her secure acting roles and providing support, yet despite these attempts, their relationship remained strained. “Abigail never seemed able to forgive me for leaving the family when she was a baby,” he admits, recognizing the impact of his departure on her life.
Despite the lack of communication in recent years, including an invitation from his wife, Stella, that went unanswered, Hopkins conveys a sense of understanding and acceptance. He remarked, “If you want to waste your life being in resentment, fine, go ahead.”
The actor also reflects on his life choices, revealing that his past relationship with Abigail influenced his decision to refrain from having more children, as he felt unfit for fatherhood again. However, as he aged, Hopkins found ways to become a supportive figure to others experiencing loneliness, demonstrating that while he grapples with his past, he continues to seek connection in other forms.
Anthony Hopkins’ memoir is now available in bookstores, giving readers deeper insight into his personal struggles and aspirations for newfound familial bonds. His story underscores the complexities of family relationships and the lingering hope for reconciliation, showcasing a vulnerable side of a celebrated actor.