This week’s Democratic National Convention has invigorated the current election cycle, offering lessons that have inspired many for the future. One unexpected highlight came from a 17-year-old boy, whose heartfelt pride for his father showcased a positive model of masculinity.
During his acceptance speech as the Democratic nominee for vice president, Minnesota Gov. Tim Walz shared his family’s journey with infertility. His son, Gus,’s emotional reaction captivated the audience as he gave a standing ovation, shouting, “That’s my dad!” with tears of joy.
This touching moment quickly gained traction on social media, garnering admiration from many. However, it also faced criticism from a segment of society that tends to ridicule boys and men expressing vulnerability. Conservative commentator Ann Coulter was among those who trivialized Gus’s display of affection toward his father, showing a lack of understanding of the powerful love shared between them.
The moment between Walz and Gus transcends politics and carries deeper significance. In my experience as a public school teacher, I observed boys who were often conditioned to suppress their emotions, resorting instead to aggression or harsh language as means of expression. Many boys felt unable to publicly display tenderness or joy, regularly replacing tears and kindness with anger and violence.
Regrettably, this damaging form of masculinity continues to prevail. It resembles the toxic version that was magnified during Donald Trump’s presidency. Adult men who embody these traits evoke feelings of pity, reflecting a cycle that hinders emotional growth in boys.
Despite this, Gov. Walz represents an alternative to the limiting masculine identities historically available. He exemplifies that men can embrace traditional roles, such as being hunters or coaches, while simultaneously supporting reproductive rights and advocating for the LGBTQ community. A man can embody strength in many forms, whether fixing a car or demonstrating deep emotional connections with his family.
Walz and his wife, Gwen, have raised a son who embraces joy and love openly. This nurturing approach produces boys who are not afraid to express their feelings, including tears of happiness.
With so much at stake in this election—potentially more than ever before—there is hope that leaders like Vice President Kamala Harris and Gov. Walz, along with the values seen in their families, may influence a shift in how society views masculinity. Their examples could spark vital discussions about fostering a healthier, more sustainable conception of manhood.