Walker Hayes recently opened up about a pivotal moment in his life that tested his sobriety following the devastating loss of his daughter, Oakleigh, in June 2018. During an interview on the K-Love Morning Show, Hayes recalled how he was on the brink of relapse after burying Oakleigh on the same day she was born. In a moment of deep sorrow, he drove to a bar, ready to self-destruct, but something unexpected halted his plans.
As Hayes approached the bar in downtown Franklin, he discovered that he had forgotten his wallet in his car. This seemingly small inconvenience became a crucial turning point. When he returned home, he found his wife, Lainey, alone in the dark, and it struck him just how devastating a relapse would be for her during such a tragic time. He reflected on the potential consequences, including the humiliation of having his wife pick him up from jail and the further trauma it would add to their family.
Hayes credits this moment of clarity with steering him back towards the path of sobriety. He stated, “I could literally see what I was about to do,” emphasizing the need for redemption in the wake of his heartbreak.
The country artist has been candid about his struggles with addiction in both interviews and through his music, with songs like “Wish I Could Drink” and “AA” detailing his journey. His heartfelt lyrics often reflect the realities of family life and the challenges he faces as a father of six. Hayes gained widespread acclaim with his 2021 hit “Fancy Like,” a catchy tune that resonates with themes of celebrating simple pleasures, which he attributes partially to his daughter’s creative influence in coming up with the accompanying dance that went viral on TikTok.
Overall, Hayes’ resilience following the profound loss of his daughter showcases not only his commitment to sobriety but also the deep bond he shares with his family, turning his pain into music that connects with listeners on various levels. The honesty in his storytelling continues to inspire many navigating their own struggles, offering a glimmer of hope amid life’s challenges.