Greer Grammer is openly sharing her complex relationship with her father, actor Kelsey Grammer, reflecting on both their estrangement and eventual reconnection. Greer, born in 1992 to Kelsey and his ex-partner Barrie Buckner, experienced a significant gap in their relationship, as Kelsey moved out when she was just four years old. This separation lasted until they unexpectedly reunited when Greer was 16, during her volunteer work at a Christmas Tree lot in California.
During a November 2025 episode of the “Pretty Basic” podcast, Greer described the moment she saw her father walking into the lot with his wife, Camille Meyer, and their daughter, Mason. The encounter was filled with tension, as Greer recalled feeling the ambiance shift with everyone’s breath being held upon recognizing Kelsey. Despite the initial awkwardness, Greer chose to remain in the moment, asserting, “If anyone’s going to feel uncomfortable… it’s not going to be me because I didn’t do anything wrong.”
Their reconnection was a pivotal point in Greer’s life, and she mentioned that this encounter led them to exchange contact information and share a meal together, marking the beginning of their renewed relationship. Greer recalled fond memories of childhood interactions with Kelsey, including visiting the set of “Frasier” and attending her preschool play, moments that still resonate with her today.
Greer also reflected on her upbringing, describing her childhood as “regular” despite having a famous father. She recounted struggles with understanding the intentions of her peers, often questioning if friendships were genuine or based on her father’s fame. Her admiration for her mother deepened as she grew older and recognized the challenges her mother faced while Kelsey became a public figure.
In candid discussions, Greer revealed that Kelsey had suggested it might be easier for her to not carry his surname, a revelation that deeply affected her. “I think I was 19 when he told me that and I just started sobbing,” she shared, emphasizing the emotional weight of that statement.
Despite the ups and downs, Greer acknowledged that Kelsey provided for her during childhood, covering child support and educational expenses, including her tuition at the University of Southern California. However, Greer clarified that she does not have a trust fund, indicating her independence as she stepped into adulthood.
This narrative serves as a reminder of the multifaceted nature of familial relationships, especially in the shadow of fame. Greer’s journey exemplifies resilience and the capacity for reconciliation, highlighting that even strained relationships can evolve and flourish with time.