At 59, Lite Tuikaba from Kaba Village in Tailevu exemplifies remarkable resilience in the face of numerous challenges. After marrying into Yalobi Village in Yasawa, she became the mother of four children—three daughters and one son. Following her husband’s death in 2017, Lite assumed the responsibility of providing for her family single-handedly.
While her daughters have embarked on their own journeys, her son remains a crucial source of support. Each day, Lite rises at dawn to fish or cultivate her farm, striving for food and a modest income. Recently, however, a significant turning point arose through her participation in the Confident Woman Community Essentials Training, facilitated by LifeBread Stay Connected. This workshop has profoundly transformed her outlook on life.
Mrs. Tuikaba found the training enlightening, as it provided her with an opportunity to reflect on her life journey and rediscover her purpose. One particularly influential activity, known as the “Tree of Life,” prompted participants to delve into their backgrounds, personal histories, achievements, and aspirations for the future. For Lite, this exercise sparked a deep moment of self-discovery. “It made me see where I started, where I am now, and where I can still go,” she shared.
The training underscored the concept of leadership, making it clear to Lite that it does not solely reside in titles or formal positions but in personal responsibility and daily choices. She has come to realize that prioritizing her health, establishing boundaries, and making thoughtful decisions are vital aspects of leadership. “We have to know ourselves and our limits. We must have discipline to protect what’s important; our health, our time, and our goals,” she remarked.
Financial literacy also emerged as an essential lesson for Lite. After years of managing a household alone, she acknowledges that financial discipline is key to achieving stability. Eager to share her knowledge with fellow women in her village, she hopes to empower them to make informed financial choices and avoid unnecessary difficulties.
Lite’s aspirations extend beyond her own growth; she is hopeful for the continuation of this training in her district of Waya, wishing for more women to benefit from similar opportunities. “This kind of training will benefit many women. I want to see it come back again,” she expressed.
Her story mirrors the quiet strength of many women across Fiji who persist in supporting and leading within their families and communities. Lite Tuikaba’s experience serves as a powerful reminder that growth, hope, and empowerment are achievable at any stage of life, inspiring countless others to seek positive change.